- “There’s something wrong in this country when gays can openly serve in the military, but ‘our’ children cannot openly celebrate Christmas.” Rick Perry is an asshole, obviously. The first problem here is that these two things are not related. Gay people don’t hate Christmas. Most Christians who celebrate Christmas also don’t hate or feel threatened by gay people. Rick Perry is a crazy person who is trying to criminalize homosexuality while hiding behind his religion. Suck it, Rick.
- If you are a dude and you call a girl a tease simply because she wouldn’t bang you for buying her a drink, it’s going to make you sound like an asshole. Actually, just expecting this to happen (if it you just think it) makes you an asshole. You don’t even have to say it to anyone.
- You just complained that your parents won’t pay for your phone/car/trip/etc. You’re a grown-up. You have to buy your own shit, asshole.
- You just complained about the phone/car/trip/etc. that your parents bought you. Only assholes complain about gifts. This isn’t “My Super Sweet Sixteen;” this is real life. In real life, if someone buys you a new phone, a car (new or used), or pays for other nice shit for you, you thank them profusely and you keep your mouth shut about the color/brand/make. It was free to you. It’s a gift. Get over yourself, asshole.
- You say the following to your friends to help make them more cultured: “Well, I’m not claiming to be an expert, but while I was in Paris/London/Europe/Madrid/etc… All the locals did/said/wore [insert random, judgmental, and terrible idea].” Unless you’re really being earnest, you probably just made yourself sound like an asshole.
- Calling yourself a visionary. No thanks, asshole.
- You complain about what other people are drinking around you. “Oh god, is EVERYONE drinking Bud Light? Kill me.” “How can people drink Sam Adams and take themselves seriously?” “I’m so over beer; now, I just drink artisan wines…” We get it. You’re cultured. No one is forcing you to drink anything, asshole, so shut up and enjoy your $100 hotel-sized bottle of wine.
- Your facebook status is about your Hummer/BMW/Mercedes/etc. and how much you hate. Basically anytime you’re complaining about how rich you are, you sound like a major asshole. This includes complaining about poor people, protesters, homeless people, and the like. This also includes being annoyed because your flight to your vacation was delayed, or that your limo wasn’t as big as you expected.
- You think a lot of girls are obsessed with you. Hey asshole, unless you’re Ryan Gosling, you’re wrong. The only one obsessed with you is you, asshole.
- You complain about other ethnicities, nationalities, and races. You are the major-est, biggest asshole of all. Congratulations, Captain Asshole!
Offices are a minefield of passive aggressive notes, and these notes are usually amazing. People are possessive of their food, their work spaces, and are quite concerned about the sights and smells of their co-workers. It’s natural. Work is a place where people with very little in common are forced to spend eight hours together every day. They have to listen to each other, smells each other’s smells, deal with personalities, and generally exist. People will steal your lunch sometimes. People will infuriate you. People will leave messes. People will be inconsiderate. It’s just what happens. It is a recipe for disaster, and by disaster, I really mean passive aggressive behavior.
Sometimes this passive aggressive behavior results in “frig” day. There is so much happening here. Where is the rest of the punctuation? Is this really just one sentence? If yes, why are the fragments estranged?
Below is another example of the dangers of passive aggressiveness:
First, I really hate that this implies that moms always have to clean up after their children – especially since we’re all adults. Second, I hate that…. well, you see it. Finally, do messes make the eating environment unsafe? This is troubling.
PS – These are very real, but aren’t meant to attack. They just make me sad.
These are the three acceptable ways to end a sentence.
Only one of these is acceptable. (Can you guess which?) If you’re going to ask a question or exclaim something, only one of the corresponding marks is really necessary. Three might be, sometimes, maybe acceptable. Such as for a drunken text, or if you just won the lottery (!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) Or if you’re referring to the band known as “!!!”
Mixing punctuation marks is a no, no matter what your situation. .! or !. is not acceptable. Are you exclaiming or stating? I’m confused. I think you’re confused, so maybe you should decide and then PICK ONE. Additionally, although it is feasible to both exclaim and state simultaneously (yet without double punctuation), asking a question and making a statement at once is a paradox. Therefore, these
?. / .?
MAKE NO SENSE! And these
ARE EQUALLY STUPID.
So do us all a favor and pick your punctuation like you pick a fine wine. Be decisive and selective, because right now, you only get one.
I love me some Lady Gaga. She can entertain like nobody else. I do think she’s gone a little too far over the top, though. She would be just as impressive with 5 costume changes instead 10. She would look just as cool in pants. She would still sound amazing with just a piano. She’s pretty cool.
That said, I hate grammar mistakes! I’m sure I make them all the time… well, occasionally. It upsets me greatly to see a professionally released piece of writing or music with a clear grammatical error. “You and I” is a prime example.
Sit back down on the couch where we
Made love the first time and you said to me
Something, something about this place
Something ‘bout lonely nights and my lipstick on your face
Something, something about my cool Nebraska guy
Yeah something about, baby, you and I
Presumably, this would appear in a complete sentence as follows: “There’s something about you and I, baby.” This is wrong. If this were written correctly, it would appear as follows: “There’s something about you and me, baby.” I know there are people out there who will dispute this because they think a person ought to always say, “You and I,” rather than “You and me.” These people are wrong; these people are very long.
There is a simple way to test whether a person should should say, “I” or “me” in a given sentence and/or situation. Try the sentence without the other person. This means, if you are trying to describe going to the store with your sister, you can first try, “I went to the store.” Therefore, if you and your sister went, you say, “My sister and I went to the store.” This also means that if you are trying to say that there is something about you, you would say, “There’s something about me.” You would not say, “There’s something about I.” Thus, you would say, “There’s something about you and me.” You would not and should not say, “There’s something about you and I.”
C’mon, Gaga. You’re better than that.
While I am goo-goo for Gaga, I’m pretty hardset against goo-goo and ga-ga baby talk. You’re an adult. Speak like an adult. Don’t call your significant other “Booboo” or “My Wittle Wuv Monkey,” or anything remotely like that in public; it’s gross. I don’t even think it’s okay for adults to use pet names in public for the most part. Calling someone “Honey,” or “Dear,” or some tame name like those is fine because it’s not gross, it doesn’t feel dirty or drippy with sweetness. Calling someone “Baby” or “Babe” or “Boo” or “Monkey” or whatever the hell you call them in bed is unacceptable. Ask yourself: “Have I used this name while screwing?” If the answer is yes, the name is private only. If the answer is no, you can proceed with caution. Think about it, in what situation can you imagine someone saying, “Oh yeah! Go faster, honey!” in the bedroom. Doesn’t that seem unlikely?
As a self-respecting adult, you shouldn’t speak a fake baby. It makes you look stupid, crazy and really annoying. Also, real babies don’t talk like that. If you have a child, maybe you should try speaking to that child in your real voice while using real words. Hearing actual means of communication will teach the child how to properly speak. Would you want your children to actually speak in the way you seem to like to speak to them? Baby talk is stupid.
Also, do you not know grammar? Using improper grammar isn’t adorable. It’s not even okay. It’s just stupid. Ugh…
I’m not against the occasional coochie-coo talk to actual babies; it’s cute, and they’re cute. I get it. I think it is good to tell children that they are cute and wonderful. I do it too. However, give kids some credit. They can understand normal words. They will appreciate being spoken to in normal ways. Children are smarter than you realize. Plus, they say awesome things. Let the kids be cute and awesome. Accept the fact that you are older and a little less awesome.